Today’s my lucky day

The day I get some added sleep from my friend, anesthesia. She's become a dear friend of mine it seems, over the past couple months. This will be the 4th time, except for another reason. In an hour I will be headed for Pre-op and in 2 from there it will be surgery time. I … Continue reading Today’s my lucky day

Everything or barely there…

When we are young (yes and dumb) we look for someone who will rock our world.. we look for someone to share life with. How do I know. I WAS THERE! I married for all the wrong reasons, everyone liked him, despite his lies. We had spent 9 years together so it must be, and … Continue reading Everything or barely there…

What do you to when people are pulling away..

Just some thoughts on the topic.. I have tried many of these even when I shouldn't have tried at all with people.. these are just a few examples I re-evaluated Do you pull them back, and show your love and commitment to whatever type of relationship it is? I know I always want to, this … Continue reading What do you to when people are pulling away..

You can do it alone but you should never have to

I have concurred it before, by myself, and even for myself. When you go through a depressive state you remember you are strong enough to get through it alone, but know you are not alone and you don't have to do it alone. There are people who love you and are there for you. I … Continue reading You can do it alone but you should never have to

When she tells you she needs you

When she tells you she needs you, needs to be loved, needs help around the house, or whatever her needs may be, do not take it in light. If she's a strong independent person sharing her needs over her wants is a hard thing to do, for she never really asks for anything. She asks … Continue reading When she tells you she needs you

7 things Men & Women need in a relationship

When it comes to what women need in a relationship, men and women are at an emotional stalemate. We feel something lacking in our relationships. The majority of modern men aren’t able to penetrate their women fully, nor are women fully opening to their men. Women aren’t opening because men aren’t giving them what they … Continue reading 7 things Men & Women need in a relationship

Call it what you will..

I call a funk. Didn't have one or two dreams last night, my mind was on a crazy loop.  It was mainly everything on my mind from financial to step parenting, to my relationship, and it went on all night. So today being exhausted and putting in OT was an added.. bonus? But hey, one … Continue reading Call it what you will..