Before its to late

Conditions are never perfect. ‘Someday’ is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. If it’s important to you and you want to do it ‘eventually"... just DO IT. Do it before you run out of time. Do it before it's too late. Waiting is a mistake.

Love can drive you crazy

Love can drive you crazy and keep you sane. You can love someone and hate them, all at once. You can miss them so much you ache but still ignore your phone when they call. We all have a special touch. Whether it’s making someone laugh or remembering their birthday. Don’t ever let anyone tell …

My friends

For all my friends, whether close or casual, just because. I write this post from my heart. I reach deep within to say thes words. Everyone will go through some hard times at some point. Life isn't easy. Just something to think about. Did you know that people who are the strongest are usually the …

Mental Illness/ Physical Illness

I personally have been told all the things in those comics below. This article hits it head on. If you had the flu you wouldn't want to hear these things. So, if you have caught yourself saying these things, next time think first. A person control depression about the same as any physical illness. Always …

Don’t should on yourself

On thing I learned last year through group was don't 'should' on yourself. Don't beat you self up over the could haves and should have's. Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in …

This is life.

For me this is what life is about, I don't want fancy stuff when it wont create memories. The hardships and challenges, the good times with family and friends. That is what it is about. I would rather have the cherishable things in life. I could be poor and it doesn't matter, as I am …

What I deserve

When someone treats me like I am just one of many options, I have learned to help them narrow their choice by removing myself from the equation. Sometimes I have to try not to care, no matter how much I do. Especially, when people decide they can drag me in and out of their life. …

Never underestimate me:

I'm the woman who believes that what comes around goes around. The one who hopes for a better day. The one who won’t give up on you. I'm the woman who’s unlike the rest. The one who spent my days smiling, and my nights crying. I'm the woman who would love to be loved. The …

Learn..

People would be wise to remember every action has a reaction. Every choice has a consequence. You don't get to blame others for your actions and choices. If you can make them, you can own up and pay for them.

WWDD

That stress Ive placed upon my own shoulders is going to crush crush me. So What Would Dana Do? Get rid of it. I don’t need to be perfect. I don’t need to have it all together. I don’t need to please everyone. So I will Place that heavy burden on the ground. Throw it …

Breaking your own heart

For years I did this, For years I would leave to go back, and finally One day I realied it was time to take my own advice and: Stop trying to change someone who doesn’t want to change. Stop giving chances to someone who abuses your forgiveness. Stop walking back to the place where your …

What a crazy effin week..

This week has been nuts every day this week my work load was doubled in contracts, freaking holidays.  My other tasks still had to also be handled and today was a DND Dana kind of day.  Too much going on.  I had some fun with friends while I was on my walk and came home, …

Forgiveness

What Is Forgiveness? Forgiveness means choosing to release resentment, anger, bitterness, hatred, and the desire to punish or avenge past offenses or wrongdoings. We can choose to forgive even when the offender does not deserve it. Why do we do this? We forgive in order to dissolve our attachments to the past. Although an offense …

Soulmates…

A soulmate is not someone who comes into your life peacefully. It is who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, someone that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human being everyone has idealized, but an ordinary person, who manages to revolutionize your world in a …

Oh what a night….

Me and this little guy had a nice Adult time out. Watched a few good men, had the pizza guy hitting on me, an hour talk with Jamie. You know, just an average night for me. Been nice not having any social media on my phone. Silenced the phone, shut off the computer, and just …