Accept Responsibility

Too often do I see people in my life who will not ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY, They find it easier to blame or put it on others than to look at what they have done, what has got them to the consequences of where they are and why they are there, they dwell on blaming other that …

Alter YOUR life

There is no need to be unhappy. There is no need to be sad. There is no need to be disappointed, or oppressed, or aggrieved. There is no need for illness or failure or discouragement. There is no necessity for anything but success, good health, prosperity, and an abounding interest and joy in life. That …

A strategy for daily living

You control the direction of your life.  I find this to be true and try to not only see it myself but also share with others.  I listen to people get upset or complain of things going on in their life that ONLY they are in control of and can fix. But they don;t want …

Know that..

Know that. . .You can't be all things to all people.You can't do all things at once.You can't do all things equally well.You can't do all things better than everyone else.You are human like everyone else.So. . .Find out who you are, and be that.Decide what comes first, and do that.Discover your strengths, and use …

Take a chance

1.  Take a chance on others by giving them a hand. The happiest and most successful people are always looking for ways to help others.  The unhappiest and most unsuccessful people are still asking, “What’s in it for me?” Ultimately, your greatest successes in life will not be measured by how high you have climbed, …

I am not perfect

I am not perfect. I live on the planet Earth where humans live. Humans aren’t perfect. Never have been. Never will be. So I don’t always wear the right clothes. And I don’t always use the right shoes. My memory sometimes fails me. I don’t look like a fashion model. I don’t cook like a …

Life is not a race, but a journey

Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special. Do not set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them …

memories & just the way life works

After writing "learning to love" Which a friend said was the most positive hes seen in probably a year, It being one of the most clear thought blog I have written in quite some time and talking about loving myself again as I stopped somewhere over the past 8 years and put that love into …

2013 from A-Z – life lessons and the journey

So.. Last night I made it to J.. goofing off on facebook at 2am.. And by popular demand people wanted my learned wisdom, story and hardship all the way to the end.. So here it is... 2013 from a-z, in good, bad, hardships, high ways & steep hills, caught when I was falling, saved when …

Weird rant and 2014 goals *edited*

if i ever get married *damn near choked, it will be before kids. I will not have a broken family. So I will be sure its ever lasting. And I must be proposed to in a hot air balloon. And married by midget elvis. << haha yeah right.. And Gidner STAY in my Name.. Its …